By SUSAN CALLAHAN, Associate Editor and Featured Columnist
Without naming names, all of us have seen grown men and women blurt out the most inappropriate things. Often, after fuller reflection, they think the better of what they have said and apologize. But what in the world is wrong? Why would a fully grown man or woman with tons of life experience and even having raised children themselves, fail to understand the importance of minding what they say? Isn't that what separates children from adults after all? As the late Art Linkletter said , "children say the darndest things".
But don't we adults know better and weigh our words, lest they hurt or cause chaos or some unintended consequence?
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It's that third set of factors that seems especially key when you're talking about an adult.
There is a big difference between someone who blurts out inappropriate things for strategic reasons, such as President Donald Trump (who called El Salvador, Haiti and certain African nations "s__tholes"), President Barack Obama (who famously said that David Cameron made a "s___tshow" of Libya) and someone who blurts them out with no gain, political or otherwise, in mind.
The first type of person is cunning, strategic and can lead you to make mistakes of your own in judging them inaccurately. In a sense, they are trying to distract you or manipulate you with their behavior. The second type of person has no aim, except perhaps the momentary catharsis of getting something off their chests.
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